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And there was alsono significant correlation between the strategies and family factors;(2)Boys hadhigher scores on aggression behaviors than girls,and girld had higher scores onon-task behavior than boys;there were no significant gender differences onsociability and social withdrawal;(3)Child social functioning correlated withparenting behaviours when child was 4 years old,correlated with chidrearing,marital quality when child was 2 years old,but unsignificantly correlated withparents'educaional level;(4)Emotional regulation strategies at 2 yearssignificantly predicted observed children's social functionings at 4 years of age;(5)Emotional regulation strategies at 2 years moderated the relation between familyfactors at 2 years and child's social functionings two years later.

情绪调节策略与家庭环境因素相关几乎不显著；（2）4岁时儿童在攻击行为和任务坚持性方面存在着显著的性别差异：男孩的攻击行为要多于女孩，而女孩的任务坚持性要高于男孩。在社会交往能力和社会性退缩行为上无性别差异；（3）儿童的社会行为与4岁时父母的教养行为部分相关，与2岁时的教养态度有部分相关，与父母的婚姻关系显著相关，但与父母受教育程度无关；（4）儿童2岁时的情绪调节策略能显著地预测儿童4岁时的社会性行为；（5）儿童的情绪调节策略影响了2岁时家庭环境与儿童以后的社会交往能力和社会性退缩行为之间的关系。

But someday people will no longer respect their mothers, fathers, mothers-in-law and fathers-in-law. People will give everything to their own children, taking over the savings of their elder parents and in-laws.

但是，未来某一天，人们不再尊敬自己父母、岳父岳母，接管老年父母、岳父母的积蓄，把一切都给子女。

Results: boys and girls of junior middle school have remarkable differences on neuroticism and psychoticism , On the mood the girls is more stable and less obstinate than boys ; parental rearing pattern is influenced by the children's gender, the amount of children and the parents' occupation and the level of education ; Parental emotional warmth and understanding was significantly negatively correlated with children's neuroticismand psychoticism, parental severe punishment , excessive interference and rejection was significantly positively correlated with children's neuroticism and psychoticism, father's emotional warmth and understanding was significantly positively correlated with children's introversion and extroversion,mother's preference for children was significantly negatively correlated with children's introversion and extroversion.

结果：初中男女生在N和P上存在显著的性别差异，女生比男生情绪更稳定，男生比女生更倔强；父母教养方式受子女性别、独生子女及其自身职业、文化程度等多种因素的影响；父母的情感温暖理解与子女的神经质N和精神质P呈显著的负相关，父母的惩罚严厉、过分干涉、拒绝否认与子女的神经质N和精神质P呈显著的正相关，父亲的情感温暖理解与子女的内-外向E呈显著的正相关，母亲对子女的偏爱与子女的内-外向呈显著的负相关。

When several children have the same accidents and fortune, if it be in their childhood, it may be shown by the genitures of their parents; or if in their old age, we may conclude the Nativities of their Parents were so powerful that they assimilate their Nativities between themselves and suit them to the disposition of Children in the Paternal Figure.

如果几个小孩都经历了同样的事件：若事件发生在他们小时候，则他们父母的命盘上应该有体现；如果发生在他们老年时，我们可能断定其父母的出生非常强大有力，他们&同化&了孩子的出生，并将父母的象征部署定位于孩子的命盘中。

When it happens that the Significators of persons of quality well posited in their own genitures, are such as were unfortunate in the Nativities of their Parents, it signifies that they shall spin out a laborious life as to riches and honours to a considerable age, and then by successive increases, shall attain to great Estates and Eminence, whence 'tis evident that the lives of no persons may be more unlikely to each other, than theirs who were born at the same time.

若盘主的征象星在自己的命盘中位置良好，但在其父母的盘中不好，代表其命运多磨难，并且要到比较大的年纪才能获得财富和荣誉，若继续积累，可以获得巨额的财产和崇高的地位。可以看出，同时出生的人的命运比其他任何人相比更为不同。注：在现代，我们很少能将命盘与父母的盘进行比较，但是此条论断的主要意思是长辈对后辈成就方面的影响。此条论断的后半部，以我的理解，意思是即是出生时间相同，并不意味着两个人有相同的命运，因为其命运不但受其自身命盘的影响，还得考虑其父母长辈的命盘。

Both the Freudians and the behaviorists, though diametrically opposed politically and though proffering very different kinds of advise to parents, stress three things: 1 Parents must do the right thing at the right time. 2 Parents, if they try, can raise superior children. 3 If something goes wrong and the kids don't turn out OK, guess who's to blame?

佛洛依德和行为主义，尽管在政治上完全相反，但给父母提出了完全不同的建议，主要集中在三方面：第一，父母必须在正确的时候作正确的事情，第二，如果父母尽力，就可以培养出优秀的孩子，第三，如果出了问题，孩子结果不好，猜猜谁该受到责难？

Both the Freudians and the behaviorists, though diametrically opposed politically and though proffering very different kinds of advise to parents, stress three things: 1 Parents must do the right thing at the right time. 2 Parents, if they try, can raise superior children. 3 If something goes wrong and the kids don't turn out OK, guess who's to blame?

佛洛依德和行为主义，尽管在政治上完全相反，但给父母提出了完全不同的建议，主要集中在三方面：第一，父母必须在正确的时候做正确的事情，第二，如果父母尽力，就可以培养出优秀的孩子，第三，如果出了问题，孩子结果不好，猜猜谁该受到责难？

June 28. Having been somewhat refresh'd with the Sleep I had had, and the Fit being entirely off, I got up; and tho' the Fright and Terror of my Dream was very great, yet I consider'd, that the Fit of the Ague wou'd return again the next Day, and now was my Time to get something to refresh and support my self when I should be ill; and the first Thing I did, I fill'd a large square Case Bottle with Water, and set it upon my Table, in Reach of my Bed; and to take off the chill or aguish Disposition of the Water, I put about a Quarter of a Pint of Rum into it, and mix'd them together; then I got me a Piece of the Goat's Flesh, and broil'd it on the Coals, but could eat very little; I walk'd about, but was very weak, and withal very sad and heavy-hearted in the Sense of my miserable Condition; dreading the Return of my Distemper the next Day; at Night I made my Supper of three of the Turtle's Eggs, which I roasted in the Ashes, and eat, as we call it, in the Shell; and this was the first Bit of Meat I had ever ask'd God's Blessing to, even as I cou'd remember, in my whole Life.

这些我在故事一开始就提到了。父亲说，我如果执意采取这种愚蠢的行动，那么，上帝一定不会保佑我。当我将来呼援无门时，我会后悔自己没有听从他的忠告。这时，我大声说，现在，父亲的话果然应验了：上帝已经惩罚了我，谁也不能来救我，谁也不能来听我的呼救了。我拒绝了上天的好意，上天原本对我十分慈悲，把我安排在一个优裕的生活环境中，让我幸福舒适地过日子。可是，我自己却身在福中不知福，又不听父母的话来认识这种福份。我使父母为我的愚蠢行为而痛心，而现在，我自己也为我的愚蠢行为所带来的后果而痛心。本来，父母可以帮助我成家立业，过上舒适的生活；然而，我却拒绝了他们的帮助。现在，我不得不在艰难困苦中挣扎，困难之大，连大自然本身都难以忍受。而且，我孤独无援，没有人安慰我，也没有人照应我，也没有人忠告我。想到这里，我又大喊大叫：&上帝啊，救救我吧！我已走投无路了啊！&多少年来，我第一次发出了祈祷，如果这也可算是祈祷的话。现在，让我重新回到日记上来吧。

After we receive an education, we should not regard our parents as country bumpkins and be disrespectful to them.

这四句话是讲：为人子女的要恭敬父母，凡事要请示父母，得父母许可才去做。

Randomly adopted 1000 students from 6 country middle schools and 4 country elementary schools, and get 813 available subjects. We can find that: the percentage of Left-behind children is the largest in the whole children, especially Left-behind children who have only one parent; and mentally healthy situations of Left-behind children are poorer than those who are not, the poorest are children who are looked after by compeers or even no rearings; the situations of children who have been Left-behind children also are not so good, there are significant differences mentally healthy between them and those who have not been, while anxiety scores are only a little lower. And there are differences in sex, grade, quarter, single or not and years parents being out among those who are Left-behind children. There are differences of parenting styles among different styles of children caring. Totally speaking, the scores on positive parenting styles of no left-behind children(such as warmth of father and mother) are higher than those who are and who have been left-behind children, but the scores are obviously lower on negative parenting styles such as punishment from father or intervening punishment from mother. The regression equation of anxiety scores on left-behind children set by parenting styles also depends on children caring styles. Positive parenting behaviors of parents and caring people have positive influences on mentally healthy of children, for instance, some supporting and mood warmth., while some negative behaviors such as rejection have negative influences.

随机抽取了江西省的6所农村中学和4所农村小学，调查学生被试共计1000人，有效被试为813人，对调查数据进行分析后发现：留守儿童所占的比重在全体儿童中最大，尤其是单亲看护人的留守儿童；而且，留守儿童的心理健康状况也显著低于非留守儿童，情况最差的是同辈看护或无看护的留守儿童；曾留守儿童的心理状况也不尽如人意，它与非留守儿童的心理健康差异达到了显著水平，心理焦虑总分只是稍低于留守儿童总体；并且，留守儿童的心理健康同样存在着性别、年级、独生与否、住宿与否以及父母打工年数的差异；不同看护类型的留守儿童父母教养方式存在着差异，总的来说，非留守儿童积极性的教养方式(如父亲温暖、母亲温暖等)得分要高于留守儿童和曾留守的儿童，而在很多消极性的教养方式如父亲惩罚、干涉，母亲干涉惩罚等等上，留守儿童与曾留守儿童的得分又要显著高于非留守儿童；家庭教养方式对留守儿童焦虑总分的回归方程视儿童的看护类型而定，父母和看护人的一些积极性的抚养行为对儿童的心理健康有着积极的影响，比如情感温暖或者支持温暖等，但是一些消极的比如拒绝等对留守儿童的心理健康就有负面的影响。

I'm strongly against the death penalty — it's an eye for an eye.

我不赞成死刑——这是以牙还牙的报复行为。

And to get you the support you need, we're enlisting all elements of our national power: our diplomacy and development, our economic might and our moral suasion, so that you and the rest of our military do not bear the burden of our security alone.

并给你们所须的支援，我们正徵召国家所有各种的力量：我们的外交及发展，我们的经济力量与道德劝说，所以你们与其他军人不须要孤独地负起国家安全的责任。