和...疏远

Participants showed the lowest flexible action in their conflicts with distant eldership, the highest self-restrained action in conflicts with close eldership, the higher egoistic action in conflicts with distant compeer and eldership.

同时，中庸的圆滑性，克己性和自我性在四种冲突情境中有不同表现，其中圆滑性在疏远长辈关系中表现最低，克己性在亲密长辈关系中表现最高，自我性在疏远关系中表现显著低于亲密关系。

Scholem, on the other hand, kept up a stream of reproaches in his letters from Palestine, thinking it nothing more than a fashionable disguise:"There is a disconcerting alienation and disjuncture between your true and alleged way of thinking."

另一方面，肖勒姆从巴勒斯坦的来信提出了一连串的批评。他认为这不过是个时髦的伪装："在你真实的，和你所宣称的思想方法之间，有着令人不安的疏远和分离。"

But as it is easy to foresee that, from different causes and from different quarters, much pains will be taken, many artifices employed to weaken in your minds the conviction of this truth; as this is the point in your political fortress against which the batteries of internal and external enemies will be most constantly and actively (though often covertly and insidiously) directed, it is of infinite moment that you should properly estimate the immense value of your national union to your collective and individual happiness; that you should cherish a cordial, habitual, and immovable attachment to it; accustoming yourselves to think and speak of it as of the palladium of your political safety and prosperity; watching for its preservation with jealous anxiety; discountenancing whatever may suggest even a suspicion that it can in any event be abandoned; and indignantly frowning upon the first dawning of every attempt to alienate any portion of our country from the rest, or to enfeeble the sacred ties which now link together the various parts.

但是，正如人们很容易预见的是，从不同的原因和从不同的四分之三，但将采取的痛苦，许多技巧来削弱你的头脑的信念这个真理；因为这是指向您的政治堡垒，用以电池内部和外部的敌人将是最经常，积极导演，这是无限的时刻，你应该适当估计的巨大价值的国家联盟的集体和个人的幸福，你应该珍惜了亲切，习惯，和不动产查封的情况； accustoming自己去思考和谈论它的钯的政治安全和繁荣；看其保存嫉妒焦虑； discountenancing任何可能暗示甚至怀疑，它可以在任何情况下，被遗弃；和愤怒时皱着眉头的第一个到来的每一个企图疏远的任何部分，我国从其他国家，或enfeeble神圣的关系联系在一起，现在的各个部分。

We should fear and love God that we may not estrange, force, or entice away our neighbor's wife, servants, or cattle, but urge them to stay and do their duty.

我们要的恐惧和爱上帝，我们可能不会疏远，使用武力，或吸引了我们的邻居的妻子，公务员，或牛，但促请他们继续留在和尽自己的责任。

Jesus' compassion was not just pity, not just almsgiving, not any condescending attitude to inferior beings, but fellow feeling and suffering together with the weak and poor and hungry, with those deeply hurt by an unjust system, with those non-persons who for generations have been alienated, dehumanized and marginalized, in short, ones who have been badly sinned against.

耶稣的同情不是仅哀怜，不仅救济，没有对下等生存的任何谦逊的态度，而且同感和痛苦与微弱一起和穷和饥饿，当那些由一个不公道的系统深深地受伤，与为世代被疏远了，被剥夺了人性并且被排斥了，简而言之，部分非常犯罪了的那些非人。

Arrogance and the know-all attitudes among some police offices will only further alienate public co-operation with the police.

部分警员傲慢和自以为是的态度，只会疏远人民和警方和合作。

It must be very alienating that those moments haven't been occurring with your partner.

你和你的配偶一定是很疏远了，所以你和他在一起时，精神和肉体同步的时刻从未发生。

By divvying up many of the powers of the president to a new prime minister and a parliament that is used to being sidelined, the government will be excluding the Kikuyu hardliners and financiers

将众多权力下放新任总理并启用常年冷冻的议会会让政府疏远基库尤族的强硬派和大财团。1963年以来，基库尤族的强硬派和大财团就将总统一职视为自己权力和财富的保险柜。

By divvying up many of the powers of the president to a new prime minister and a parliament that is used to being sidelined, the government will be excluding the Kikuyu hardliners and financiers who, since independence in 1963, have used the presidency as an easy lock on power and wealth .

将众多权力下放新任总理并启用常年冷冻的议会会让政府疏远基库尤族的强硬派和大财团。1963年以来，基库尤族的强硬派和大财团就将总统一职视为自己权力和财富的保险柜。

For this also is a weakness, to be vexed at them, as well as to be diverted from thy course of action and to give way through fear; for both are equally deserters from their post, the man who does it through fear, and the man who is alienated from him who is by nature a kinsman and a friend.

因为，因他们而烦恼，就和由于畏惧而偏离你的行动路线或让步一样，也是一种软弱，因为这两种人，即由于畏惧而这样做的人，和使自己疏远于天生是自己同胞和朋友的人，都是放弃自己的立场。

What are your goals and strategies for growth?

你的成长目标和策略是什么？

And unto the angel of the church in Sardis write; These things saith he that hath the seven irits of God, and the seven star I know thy works, that thou hast a name that thou livest, and art dead.

3：1 你要写信给撒狄教会的使者，说，那有神的七灵和七星的，说，我知道你的行为，按名你是活的，其实是死的。