关注自己

Nationalism is our form of incest, is our idolatry, is our insanity·"Patriotism" is its cult·It should hardly be necessary to say, that by "patriotism" I mean that attitude which puts the own nation above humanity, above the principles of truth and justice; not the loving interest in one's own nation, which is the concern with the nation's spiritual as much as with its material welfare -- never with its power over other nations·Just as love for one individual which excludes the love for others is not love, love for one's country which is not part of one's love for humanity is not love, but idolatrous worship.

民族主义是我们的乱伦模式，是我们的偶像崇拜，是我们的疯狂。"爱国主义"是它的迷信崇拜。不必说，我所谓的"爱国主义"态度将自己的国家置于人道之上，置于正义与真理的原则之上；不是对某人自己国家的利益的热爱，这种热爱既关注国家的精神财富也关注它的物质财富——从不以强力欺凌别国。仅仅爱一个个体而排斥对他人的爱就不是爱，不把爱某人的国家作为对人道主义的热爱的组成部分就不是爱，而是偶像崇拜。

In relation between heaven and man,people paid more attention to interests of the world,from man to heaven,did not follow god's will blindly;In relations among people,people was not confined in a small circle that they lived,and family confinements was weakened;thoughts and speeches were inclined to be free and variable;People's independent consciousness increased.

在天人关系方面，人们更关注人间的利害，由人而天，不再盲从于天命鬼神；在人与人的关系方面，人们不再受制于自己生活于其间的小圈子，家族束缚减弱，思想言论趋于自由和多样化，个人独立意识增强，人们开始更多地依靠自己的力量；在人性问题上，人们对自身的本质也进行了反省，开始关注人的价值。

Since the above six are self-sufficient man likes to do the job, and the pursuit of self-worth, feel self-care, personal space, respect for another's privacy, pay attention to personal style and taste, do not follow the crowd, there is awareness of the law of "80 After "will consciously dislike these acts: for example, talk to others for no reason," 80 after the "more agreeable to the West are more concerned about the self-opinion, very few non-Road, concerned about others; such as, enjoy preaching others," 80后" from an early age from schools, parents, etc. too much preaching, preaching and therefore acts very much, resulting in antagonistic, their attention; For instance, to belittle the advantages of others,"80 after" consider embodies self-worth is not to derogate others premise, the more The more derogatory of others to explain their value enough, are their attractions; For instance, smoking in the office,"after 80" would be a focus on self and respect for others the organic integration of generation, because these two are not always contradictory, if that "after 80" only know that take care of their own convenience, on the wrong; such as, the mentality of not enough sunlight,"80后" feel self-care, therefore, delighted to do anything on an individual basis or as a premise, we think that good , but their psychological upset, does not endorse, they will not act in accordance with the meaning of the U.S., the ultimate manifestation of personal values on the individual feel, are their characteristics; For instance, loud make personal phone calls,"80, after" personal space, respect for others Privacy, therefore, in a public office area will be less and less to see the "80 after" unscrupulous people talking about the workplace their own affairs, the concept of privacy, especially popular in this generation will be reflected in the workplace in the past.

因为，上述6条都是不够自我的职场中人喜欢做的，而追求自我价值、在乎自我感受、重视个人空间、尊重他人隐私、讲究个人风格与品味、不随波逐流、有法律意识的"80后"会自觉地不喜欢这些行为：比如，无端议论他人，"80后"比较认同西方人较为关注自我的观点，很少道人是非，关注别人的事；比如，喜欢说教别人，"80后"从小受到来自学校、家长等的太多说教，因此对说教行为很反感，从而产生逆反，自己注意；比如，贬低别人优势，"80后"认为体现自我价值不是以贬损别人为前提的，越贬损别人越说明自己的价值不够，是他们的过人之处；比如，在办公区吸烟，"80后"将是注重自我和尊重别人有机结合的一代，因为这两者始终不矛盾，如果认为"80后"只知道照顾自己的方便，就大错特错了；比如，心态不够阳光，"80后"在乎自我感受，因此，任何事情是以个人高兴与否作为前提的，大家觉得好，但自己心理不高兴、不认可，便不会根据大家的意思行事，个人价值最终体现在个人感受上，是他们的特点；比如，大声打私人电话，"80后"重视个人空间、尊重他人隐私，因此，在公共办公区将越来越少地看到"80后"职场人肆无忌惮地谈论自己的事情，隐私的概念在这一代特别流行，将会体现到职场中来。

If you feel that caring about others more than youself ,you are trending to mature.

如果你感觉到关心他人比只关注自己时，那么你就开始走向了成熟。

With all transfer activity, you need to ensure that you remain within theconstraints of your club finances and beware of gazumping.

对于所有的转会活动，玩家都要关注自己俱乐部的财政状况，并且要小心欺诈。

Popular Green foodstuff became popular after people starts to get more concious about their healths.

当人们开始关注自己的身体健康时，绿色食品便风行了起来。

That can be a very good reason, if the seller can back it up with proof. It could mean the company has decided to stick to its knitting.

这可能是个好理由，如果卖家能证明它是个好点子，这说明这家公司决定只关注自己的核心业务。

I was born with a stone-cold heart, and my natural tendency is to center on what I want rather than on what God wants.

因着罪，我与生俱来一个冷漠的心，而我的天性是倾向关注自己所想的，而不是神所想的。

It can remind us to pay more attention to our health, especially mental health.

没错，它会提醒我们要关注自己的健康，特别是心理健康。

When employed in any good work, we should watch over ourselves, lest we render it unclean by our corruptions.

当受雇於任何良好的工作，我们应该关注自己，否则我们使它不洁我们的腐败。

What are your goals and strategies for growth?

你的成长目标和策略是什么？

And unto the angel of the church in Sardis write; These things saith he that hath the seven irits of God, and the seven star I know thy works, that thou hast a name that thou livest, and art dead.

3：1 你要写信给撒狄教会的使者，说，那有神的七灵和七星的，说，我知道你的行为，按名你是活的，其实是死的。