不赢不输

Lots of men have found common cause in a way that fits Woolf's take on androgyny, that is, rather than seeing power as the goal and a zero-sum game, they see benefits for both men and women if all get a wider range of social choices (such as choosing various jobs or childrearing, respecting activities traditionally gendered, etc.).

许多男性找到类似吴尔芙对雌雄同体的看法，亦即他们不把权力视为目标，或是一场非输即赢的游戏，相反地，他们认为如果大家都能有更多样的社会选择（如选择不同的工作、扶养小孩或者尊重传统上被性别化的活动等等），那么男女双方都将获利。

After a fight or two no one cared to bully me. Anyone who dared to taunt me with "Chinky, Chinky Chinaman!"

我被教导，要对任何欺负我的恶霸还手攻击，无论他多大或多强，因为就算你肉体上"输了"你道义上和战略上会赢了，从来不意料到会遭遇反抗的恶霸，会被你吓坏了，永远不会再触动你。

If nuclear reactors were cheaper to build and decommission than fossil fuelled power stations, they would definitely have the economic advantage.

8：因为只能抽后剩1，4，7才能赢，我先抽得话不可能达到这几个数，很显然，只能让对方先抽，也即是先抽的人输

Benjamin Disraeli He who does not hope to win has already lost.

不希望赢的人已经输了。

When I reason ask among them very inattentively, president's adviser is tiny and tiny on smile of say:" The reason is easy, you are quicker than him five minutes, at the successful on the road, this is the distance that loses and wins, more important is you are in the activity, but he is wait for.."

当我很不在意的问其中的原因时，校长顾问微微一笑的说："原因很简单，你比他快了五分钟，在成功的路上，这就是输和赢的距离，更重要是你在行动，而他却在等待。。"

I do not have such feeling all along, and she walks together, many person uses another the eye resembling to be looking at me , she is indeed very ugly, with she together to such an extent even my feeling is extremely not natural,as if others goes to a piece in doubting that how I can follow her, I have also felt self at the same time as if advantageous many, but her bothers me readjusting oneself to a certain extent , tying up to death rottenly fight , the time complaining that I give her unceasingly is very few, That the chance shirking a dinner party for I design the consummate excuse goes to accompany her , the once to gamble , loses almost I am willing to at 00:100:100, is to walk for 200 meters with the back towards her , she kisses my once , God right away if I have won, I be willing to the back will stop to 10 meters!

翻译的内容如下：我从来没有这样的感觉，和她走在一起，很多人用另类的眼睛看着我，以至我感觉很不自然，她的确很丑，和她在一起，好象别人在怀疑我怎么能跟她走到一块，同时我也感觉到自己好象优越了很多，然而她却纠缠我不放，死缠烂打，不断埋怨我给她的时间太少，为我设计完美的借口推脱应酬的机会去陪她，一次赌博，几乎我情愿百分百输，那就是背她走200米，要是我赢了她就吻我一下，上帝，我情愿背到10米就停下来！

Discipline, animal husbandry, clothing sets some magic back to the Blue A, BUFF steal the scene to see a range of control is very important, as far as possible do not eat even a Blast Firelight, beat ice ring flash disappear silent dining, or wake up the sheep out to see who did not blue, but not killed, just not to be killed and would not lose on win sooner or later.

戒律牧，穿一些回蓝套魔甲，偷BUFF看情况定，射程控制很重要，尽量不吃震爆心火一套连，打不过冰环沉默闪现消失吃喝，或者羊掉唤醒，看谁先没蓝，不求打死，只求不被打死，不会输，就早晚能赢。

If------ By Joseph Rudyard Kipling If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; I f you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or, being hated, don't give away to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise; If you can dream---and not make dreams your master; If you can think--- and not make thoughts your aim; I f you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two imposters just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to broken, And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools; If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and toss And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; I f you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will, which says to them: hold on!

翻译成中文就是假如——假如你能——在别人不知所措却对你横加指责的时候，保持清醒的头脑；假如你能——在所有人都怀疑你的时候仍然相信自己，并能体谅别人对你的怀疑；假如你能等待且又充满耐心，或者，从不用谎言去应付谎言，也不用仇恨去回击仇恨，既不故作正经也不夸夸其谈。假如你充满梦想——但绝不做梦想的奴仆；假如你勤于思考——却不把思想当作目标；假如你能——在遇到胜利和困难时态度同样平静；假如你能容忍你所说的真理，被无赖用作捕捉愚人的陷阱，或看着你所献身的事业轰然倒塌，你能屈身拾起残破的工具把它们重建。假如你能——把所有赢来的筹码都押在一把赌注上，输光后仍能重新再来，且对输赢只字不提。假如你能——在运气不佳身心俱疲之时，仍能全力以赴抓住机遇，在一无所有只剩意志支撑的时刻，咬牙坚持到底。

The reunion dinner must be a spread and we must observe important customs such as visiting my parents on the second day of Chinese New Year as well as visiting relatives and friends...the list goes on. This is why I say just two days of public holidays are not enough. Sigh!

守岁'。''时要输光压岁钱或再赢回一倍，要穿新衣新鞋四处拜年，要看超过三部贺岁片或一整套日剧，初二回娘家的习俗当然也不能漏掉……话讲回来，这样一路&过&下来，短短的两天年假，还真是不够用！

Besides, to make sure she grows up with fond memories of Chinese New Year, I plan to involve her in spring-cleaning, making delicacies, growing narcissus and writing couplets. The reunion dinner must be a spread and we must observe important customs such as visiting my parents on the second day of Chinese New Year as well as visiting relatives and friends...the list goes on. This is why I say just two days of public holidays are not enough. Sigh!

此外为了让她拥有儿时美好的新年回忆，我还计划带着她全家内外大扫除、做糕饼、养水仙、写春联，年夜饭除了全鸡全鱼，还要准备水饺、梅干扣肉、长年菜上桌，守岁时要输光压岁钱或再赢回一倍，要穿新衣新鞋四处拜年，要看超过三部贺岁片或一整套日剧，初二回娘家的习俗当然也不能漏掉……话讲回来，这样一路&过&下来，短短的两天年假，还真是不够用！

What are your goals and strategies for growth?

你的成长目标和策略是什么？

And unto the angel of the church in Sardis write; These things saith he that hath the seven irits of God, and the seven star I know thy works, that thou hast a name that thou livest, and art dead.

3：1 你要写信给撒狄教会的使者，说，那有神的七灵和七星的，说，我知道你的行为，按名你是活的，其实是死的。