失意

Aggression

进攻

要了解什么是无意识的冲突,首先要弄清楚以下几个术语: "失意"(frustration)-失意的根源来自"进攻"(aggression)的行为. 人要达到某一目的,便向这个目的进攻,进攻不成,受到挫折后便产生"失意". 失意的反应有时是再进攻,有时却是"冷漠"(apathy).

apathy

冷漠

失意的反应有时是再进攻,有时却是"冷漠"(apathy). 失意是一种"无意识的冲突". "焦虑"(anxiety)焦虑也是一种无意识的冲突. 它是欲望冲动受到自我抑制的结果. 焦虑的解决办法有两种,一种叫"克服"(coping. strategies).

To avail oneself of

利用

embrace a social cause.乐意地从事于一项社会... | (4)To avail oneself of利用: | "I only regret, in my chilled age, certain occasions and possibilities I didnt embrace""我只是遗憾,在我失意的时候没有利用某...

beat down

击败

例如,对于亨克而言,Beat自然是垮掉,是失意,是困顿,是被击败(beat down). 亨克何许人?他全名叫赫伯特亨克. 他原来是威廉巴勒斯的朋友,一个纽约时代广场上的扒手和吸毒者. 金斯堡、凯鲁亚克和巴勒斯通过亨克认识了一批小偷和歹徒,

Disappointing Victory

失意的凯旋

83 After the Festival 祭典之后 | 84 Disappointing Victory 失意的凯旋 | 85 Moving the Capital 迁都

Now you must realize that there are thousands upon thousands of frustrated

现在你必须意识到 成千上万失意

by splinter groups of social radicals, social deviants... | Now you must realize that there are thousands upon thousands of frustrated,|现在你必须意识到 成千上万失意... | angry people, such as yourselv...

treat others well when you have your days,because you need them when you are unfortune

得意时应善待他人,因为你失意时会需要他们

78、一切伟大的行动和思想,都有一个微... | 79、得意时应善待他人,因为你失意时会需要他们. treat others well when you have your days,because you need them when you are unfortune | 80、学做任何事得按部就班,急不...

Luck at cards,unluck in love

赌场得意,情场失意

It takes two to make a quarrel.吵架需要两个人. | Luck at cards,unluck in love.赌场得意,情场失意. | Marry in haste,and repent at leisure.草率结婚后悔多.

laugh on the other side of one's face

由得意变失意, 转喜为悲

know which side one's bread is buttered (on) 知道 自已利益所在; 善于... | laugh on the other side of one's face 由得意变失意, 转喜为悲 | let the side down [口]使自己的人(如朋友、同事等)失望, 辱没自己的一...

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